Yes, ministry can be brutal. One of the most sobering statistics I found in my research is that for every twenty pastors who enter the ministry only one will retire from ministry. I had no idea how many pastors struggled with depression and frustration regarding their ministry roles. You write that 80 percent of pastors (and 84 percent of their spouses) are discouraged in their ministry roles, that 40 percent say they have seriously considered leaving the pastorate in the past three months, and that 70 percent say they don’t have a single close friend. Those are some really astounding and sobering numbers. And yet, this reality is so rarely talked about—in church, at conferences, in books. Why do you think that is, and why is it important that we change that? Why must we talk about failure, (or the sense of failure), among ministers? SOURCE: Pastors and the “F-Word”: A Conversation with J.R. Briggs.
I think there are a lot of pastors out there that would love to tell their parishioners the truth but are afraid of the consequences. Many churches and denominations directly hire and pay their pastors. For the most part they expect the pastor to preach what they currently believe to be truth. They aren’t looking for someone to come in and teach them a “new truth”.
The more I studied theology in the past twenty years the more I realized that there are vast differences between one Christian denomination and another. And within those denominations are churches that are even more scattered across the theological landscape. Getting back to the topic of pastors, they risk their jobs by studying outside their groups theology. If they say the wrong things they may very well be shown the door.
When I was a member of a Missouri Synod Lutheran Church I became a pretty close friend of the pastor. Being that I did not restrict my studies to only Lutheran practices I read very widely. One of the books that deeply influenced me was Shane Claiborne’s The Irresistible Revolution. This book spent a lot of time looking at the words of Jesus and his messages to us. I was so impressed by the book to buy a copy for the pastor. I gave it to him and was anxiously awaiting his thoughts. A couple of weeks later I asked him about the book and he made a snide comment about the author and would not go into further explanation. After a while it became obvious to me that he did not bother to read more than a short snippet. I simply couldn’t understand how he couldn’t have been influenced by the messages in the book.
What I learned from this encounter is that many clergy simply will not go outside their hierarchy when it come to their studies. They simply will not read things that might disagree with their current practices. I guess the reason for that is because they fear for their jobs. It is certainly depressing to see the statistics above. Pastors should be free to give us a dose of their wisdom without fear for their jobs.
This is a sad part of current day Christianity…

I don’t know why anyone would want to go into ministry these days. Half the population criticized you because you are not open enough and the other half because you are too closed.you are really criticized even more if you are a Christian minister.
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Rod,
I have a very interesting experience when I served in the ministry of the LCMS in the area of Maryland at four different LCMS churches.nyou would not believe how Lutheran teachers were treated as second hand members of the congregation. And, women teachers were really secondhand to men teachers salary wise and benefit wise. One school board member at a church where I was going to work at said teachers should be satisfied receiving meat and eggs for their service as they paid teachers in the 19th century! That board member had an executive job at Westinghouse. Men teachers were paid 12 months salary and women were paid ten months’ salary. That changed in the 90s. Attending congregational meetings were a place where teachers were not allowed to express their honest thoughts as the hierarchy would possibly not rehire them the next year. So, after leaving the professional ministry, I realized how un democratic the
experience had been. Congregational leaders can make or break you.
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Hi you two. yeah religion and politics have a lot more in common than we would like to think. The games people play in both those arenas is frightening. It seems you gotta tow the line if you are a Rep/Dem and even a Lutheran/Baptist/Catholic/etc. If you don’t you are often showed the door as I was.
Mary I can certainly empathize with you. Jesus made very little distinction between males and females during his ministry. It was only after Paul and all his rules that Christians sadly took up the mantel of women not deserving leadership and its privileges.
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