Christianity is Harder Than We Pretend it is….

Surprisingly, many people don’t reject Christianity because they’ve given up on God. Instead, they’ve given up on the people and things that represent God. They don’t hate Jesus, they just become tired of not finding Him within Christian culture. As Christians, we sometimes mistakenly try to compensate for God by presenting our faith as easier than it really is. We cover up the ugliness and hardship of authentic faith.But while following Christ is beautiful and worthwhile, disappointment, pain, suffering, betrayal and hurt are also a part of life, and Christians aren’t immune or excluded from these horrors. Contrary to a life of ease, comfort and luxury, following Jesus demands sacrifice, honesty, vulnerability, conflict and a lifetime dedicated to loving others. This is really hard—a commitment not meant to be taken lightly…. Yet many churches market Christianity as an easy and painless solution to all life’s problems. Instead of introducing Christianity as a path to having a relationship with God requiring time, energy, work and intense dedication, it becomes a product that promises much without hardly any sacrifice…. In fact, we actually expect things to get favorably better for us. We assume God will shine down divine blessings: salary increases, better parking spaces, health improvements, increased social popularity and championships for our favorite sports teams. We want our faith to work for us—not the other way around. SOURCE: Christianity is Harder Than We Pretend it is | Stephen Mattson.

I am not going to add a lot to Stephen’s words here, he does a very good job of describing my feeling about being a follower of Jesus. Today’s Christianity just seems to be so watered down from what it was in the beginning. Some within the church even call it a “something for nothing faith”. Jesus’ messages have become so distorted by some of our religious leaders. Folks like Mr. Osteen who tell us Jesus meant for all of us to be millionaires and all we have to do is to send him some money and he will make that happen. Then there are those who make it a “say the correct words and then just sit back and wait”deal. Christianity, if it is practiced in its purest form, and I believe it is meant to be practiced that way,  is hard work and sometimes very difficult to live.  Jesus told us to take care of each other and by that he didn’t mean just people who you agree with from a doctrinal or political point of view. All of us, whether we want to admit it or not, are children of God and we should treat each other that way.

6 thoughts on “Christianity is Harder Than We Pretend it is….

  1. Thanks for laying it on the line. I am still struggling with loving everybody the way that God and Jesus do, my selfish nature intrudes. Very difficult even moment by moment.

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  2. Christianity is not hard. Rather, it is the PEOPLE that play being Christians that is the hard part. When we follow Christ in our life- we are filled with his ever present love and sacrifice for others. Rod, you are on the right road- don’t look back.

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    1. While I agree with you on some level Mary what I was referring to are those people who think that when you become a Christian all your problems go away and you somehow have and exemption from today’s problems, tragedies and heartaches. Couldn’t be further from the truth…

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  3. Great blog. And inspiring. We have similar views on Christianity. I too hesitate to label myself “Christian” for the same reasons as you. I seldom attend church services any longer as it seems that most churches/clergy are far more interested in the doctrine than anything else. I gain little from preaching and sermons. I do like the social aspect of church however.

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    1. I too enjoyed the social aspects of church. We had good friends there, at least I thought they were good friends but they disappeared soon after I was shown the door for publicly saying I didn’t believe the earth to be only 6,000 years old. So many cling to very outdated doctrine while almost totally ignoring the foundational stuff. That totally saddens me to no end. We need Christ to come back for a repeat performance…..

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