A Melting Pot vs. A Stew….

When I was a kid I often heard that the USA was the great American melting pot. To me that implied that when people came to this country they gave up all their traditions and heritage and merged seamlessly into the American ethic. I was a pretty naive farm boy in my youth so it was years before I realized that the melting pot was … Continue reading A Melting Pot vs. A Stew….

Clinging To Your Old Self…

I like to think that I am a forward looking guy who embraces change, but sometimes I am stuck in my ways simply because that’s what I have always done. That was probably the hardest lesson to learn 25 years ago when I left the corporate world. I couldn’t imagine what my life was going to be like now that my time was my own. And, that is a lesson I continually am learning even today. Continue reading Clinging To Your Old Self…

It’s All About Control…

(Am I the controller or the controlee?) I finally realized something that is at a most fundamental level for me. That something is control. From a very early age, control became an essential part of my nature. I simply had to maintain control over my life. That need has stayed with me to this very day. When I lose control, meltdowns mostly ensue. My obsession … Continue reading It’s All About Control…