This is a very targeted category about the challenges for a deaf and neurodivergent person (me) living in a retirement community (RetCom). It will detail the first five years there. It includes very heartfelt stories of my challenges, successes and failures of trying to find a happy life in my current circumstances. In order to know the background the series starts 78 days before my official occupancy and will then proceed in a chronological order up to today and whatever follows.