I have been in a philosophical mode lately and one of the things on my mind is the fact that in at least the last twenty years or so we just can’t seem to be able to learn from others mistakes. We seem to be locked in a mode of doing the same stupid thing over and over again. Too bad we don’t have a book with all the answers. But, of course, it would have to now be an e-book and have a robust search widget. People just don’t have the patience anymore to actually read a whole book.
One of the reasons for continually making the same mistakes is that wisdom just seems to be a forgotten thing now days. All of us old people who are looking back realize that when we were young we thought we knew it all but as we aged we realized that was far from the truth. We learned many many lessons in life that, if we had that knowledge earlier, would have caused us to make different decisions. That is called learning from our mistakes….
It is one thing to learn from our own mistakes but even more useful is to learn from other’s mistakes so that we don’t have to repeat the same errors in judgment. The basic problem with learning from history is that people just don’t seem to value the wisdom that comes with age anymore. Most young people today see old people as those who lived in the dark ages before the Internet, cell phones, and instant communications. They simply can’t fathom that we might just have something to teach them about life. That we might just have some answers to their current queries.
It takes wisdom to realize that, yes the tools each generation uses continues to change but the basic questions of life remain the same. Here I am preaching about wisdom when I know that I too didn’t put much value on the wisdom of my elders. As a result I’m sure I made many mistakes in life that could have been avoided if only I had asked. None of us have a book of answers but many of us have answers that could be put in the book for others to learn…..
2 thoughts on “Making The Same Mistakes Over And Over Again….”
I agree, RJ, that the idea of learning from mistakes seems to be a lost art. The current mind set seems to be, a) our circumstances are unique and special so past solutions don’t apply, and b) he who yells the loudest must have the answers.
Quite sad, isn’t it.
Wisdom just doesn’t have the weight it once did. Even in Japan, the elders are being discarded by many families. Now that I have a lot of experience in how not to do things no one wants to listen 🙂