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All the other things about living life outside the main stream.

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Life On The Margins – It’s not just about adversity…

December 6, 2021January 16, 2022 RJ Walters

I’ve been posting too much about adversity being on the margins. It’s time I started looking at the positive stuff that puts us there. Yes, I am on the spectrum, but even that has a lot of good stuff about … Continue reading Life On The Margins – It’s not just about adversity…

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RetComLife #19 – Things That Make Me Happy

December 3, 2021August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

One thing you should be paying attention to when you are choosing a retirement community is the weekly activities. Are there any that interest you or make you happy? I am still pretty active in my life away from my … Continue reading RetComLife #19 – Things That Make Me Happy

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Living Up To Others Expectations…

November 29, 2021August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

Those of us Baby Boomers on the spectrum have usually spent our lives trying to live up to other’s expectations. We were told very early own that we were too shy, so get over it and join the mainstream. That … Continue reading Living Up To Others Expectations…

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It’s Time For A Re-Label…

November 22, 2021February 10, 2022 RJ Walters

I took a test years ago to determine where I am on the Intelligence Spectrum. That test gave me a number to know where I am on that spectrum. My number was 135. I didn’t think much of it at … Continue reading It’s Time For A Re-Label…

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About Emotions #8 – Summing It Up

November 17, 2021August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

The strongest emotion that I think I have is empathy for those, like me, who have faced some pretty serious struggles through life. That, and my lack of a sense of accomplishment in this emotions series, is what this post … Continue reading About Emotions #8 – Summing It Up

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I Think The Scientific Community Has It Wrong About Autism Studies

November 15, 2021August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

After some serious study about autism in general and Asperger’s in particular, I am convinced that the scientific community has a basic flaw when it comes to autism. That flaw is that 95% of the studies and articles about autism … Continue reading I Think The Scientific Community Has It Wrong About Autism Studies

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Finding Yourself In Your Differences

November 1, 2021December 6, 2021 RJ Walters

I have made it no secret here on RJsCorner that I struggled through life trying to figure out what was wrong with me. My very narcissistic mother who abandoned me when I was nine years old did nothing but amplify … Continue reading Finding Yourself In Your Differences

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My Passions Come And Go…

October 31, 2021August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

Passions in my life seem to come and go, but a few stick around almost forever. Twenty years ago, I was passionate about learning more about the origins and history of Christianity. That passion subsided about ten years later, with … Continue reading My Passions Come And Go…

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Becoming Disentangled From The World

October 28, 2021August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

I seem to be quickly disengaging myself from the part of the world that disturbs me the most. Of course, the primary one is politics. I used to look at politics with a helicopter view, now it is more like … Continue reading Becoming Disentangled From The World

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I Am The Loneliest…

October 25, 2021October 25, 2021 RJ Walters

I expect this post is going to surprise you. I know you have probably already finish the phrase in the title with a myriad of responses. But for me, it is I am the loneliest when I am in a … Continue reading I Am The Loneliest…

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I’m Still On The Fence With This Autism Thing…

October 18, 2021August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

I have done a lot of reading about Asperger’s Syndrome and convinced that I have had many of those typical traits throughout my life, but only in the last decade found that they had a name. Now, the experts have … Continue reading I’m Still On The Fence With This Autism Thing…

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Stop Being a Jerk!!

October 11, 2021October 10, 2021 RJ Walters

The idea for this post came from Anna over at Medium.com which is one of my favorite sites. The article was entitled: Stop using Asperger’s as an excuse to be a jerk When I read this article, the first person … Continue reading Stop Being a Jerk!!

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Me & Beethoven…

September 28, 2021September 28, 2021 RJ Walters

Now, don’t get me wrong here, I am not comparing myself artistically to Beethoven, that would be extremely presumptuous of me 😉. But we do have something in common. That is our deafness, how it happened and how we reacted … Continue reading Me & Beethoven…

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Hard Work Is The Enemy Of Creativity

September 21, 2021July 5, 2025 RJ Walters

Let’s face some facts. The corporate world expects you to “Put your nose to the grindstone” and not let up until the job is done. That creates an atmosphere of workaholics who then go up the corporate ladder, and that … Continue reading Hard Work Is The Enemy Of Creativity

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End of Life Trauma Part 8 – Hospice (continued)

September 15, 2021August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

These next two post in the series will probably be the most difficult to write. But they were also the time I came across the most empathic person I have ever known. I finished off the last post on this … Continue reading End of Life Trauma Part 8 – Hospice (continued)

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High Intelligence Means That You Are On The Margins

September 7, 2021September 5, 2021 RJ Walters

Having high intelligence almost always means you are living life on the margins. Of course, the perfect example of this was Albert Einstein. People with high intelligence break new ground and are always looking for things to challenge them. Mainstream … Continue reading High Intelligence Means That You Are On The Margins

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Chaos, Good News…

September 6, 2021August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

This is going to be one of those epiphany posts where I learn a little about myself. One of my favorite quotes comes from the sci-fi movie called Tron. Chaos, Good News I read that to mean that sometimes we … Continue reading Chaos, Good News…

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About Knowing…

August 31, 2021August 31, 2021 RJ Walters

One of my readers recently pulled up a post I wrote in 2015 about knowing. It is something I want to bring up again for those who have not seen it. We should all be constantly in block 4, always … Continue reading About Knowing…

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More About Asperger’s Syndrome

August 17, 2021August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

This post is just a quick educational opportunity about Asperger’s Syndrome I readily admit that I have some pretty significant Aspie characteristics and have been studying this neurological condition for several years now. I recently came across a very well … Continue reading More About Asperger’s Syndrome

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About How To Get To Heaven…

August 8, 2021August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

Rob Bell is one of those Christian authors that is able to condense his thought into a few words. He doesn’t beat around the bush, he comes right at you with the point he is making, and I happen to … Continue reading About How To Get To Heaven…

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Form vs Function

August 6, 2021August 6, 2021 RJ Walters

I think most of my readers recognize the title above. “Form” is the artistic/creative side of the tools and toys around us, whereas “Function” is about how well it does the intended job. It is the analytical side. I must … Continue reading Form vs Function

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