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These Are A Few Of My Favorite Things…

April 29, 2023April 29, 2023 RJ Walters

Part of my vow to spend more time on my favorite things, and not worry so much about what other people say and do, is doing more cooking. I have been cooking for the vast majority of my life. I … Continue reading These Are A Few Of My Favorite Things…

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On-The-Road, North Carolina: Part 3 – The Sanitary Restaurant

April 28, 2023April 28, 2023 RJ Walters

If I were to open a new restaurant today, I certainly wouldn’t call it the “Sanitary Restaurant”! I’m sure there are some places that are proud that they don’t get any serious violations by the health department, but I’m also … Continue reading On-The-Road, North Carolina: Part 3 – The Sanitary Restaurant

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When Pigs Fly…

April 27, 2023April 27, 2023 RJ Walters

I didn’t realize that the saying “when pigs fly…” was as old as it was. According to Wikipedia, the phrase has been used in various forms since the 1600s as a sarcastic remark, meaning “never”. When I came across this … Continue reading When Pigs Fly…

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On-The-Road: North Carolina – Part 2

April 26, 2023May 6, 2026 RJ Walters

My North Carolina trip was initially scheduled to be about two weeks long, but due to health issues it was truncated to 9 days. The primary purpose of the trip was to visit my “estranged” younger brother. I can happily … Continue reading On-The-Road: North Carolina – Part 2

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A Lover Of Peace…

April 25, 2023April 25, 2023 RJ Walters

It kinda seems like many of my major heroes in life are connected. I am currently doing research for a series of posts about Leo Tolstoy and have learned that Gandhi looked to him for inspiration. Then Martin Luther King … Continue reading A Lover Of Peace…

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Never Stop Learning

April 24, 2023April 20, 2023 RJ Walters

I, too often, question why I need to learn something new every day. I rationalize that given the time I have left on this earth, why not just coast? Well, the answer to that is that the more you coast, … Continue reading Never Stop Learning

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A Longer Table… Not A Higher Wall

April 23, 2023April 22, 2023 RJ Walters

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Turning The Spigot Back On…

April 21, 2023April 21, 2023 RJ Walters

I have enough posts in my queue now, so I am opening the spigot today. When I was looking for a graphic for today’s post, I initially searched for a water spigot. But I think the picture here is a … Continue reading Turning The Spigot Back On…

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Back Home Again…

April 15, 2023 RJ Walters

My North Carolina vacation was cut a little short, but I am gladly back home again. I think my mind is finally wrapped around the idea that I am not 40-years-old, but instead, nearly twice that age. My back just … Continue reading Back Home Again…

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The Path I Chose…

April 7, 2023July 30, 2025 RJ Walters

Determining our path in life is a lifelong adventure. Yes, there are many off-ramps that we will likely take that sometimes lead us astray. There are also paths that seemed right at the time, but ended up being dead-ends. That’s … Continue reading The Path I Chose…

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Things I Am Learning About Life

April 6, 2023April 2, 2023 RJ Walters

I am so happy that I have discovered Lessons Taught By Life. It is a valuable lesson to understand that your path in life is unique to you. After all, no one thinks and believes the same things. I am … Continue reading Things I Am Learning About Life

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Trying To Fit In

April 4, 2023April 2, 2023 RJ Walters

I pride myself here at RJsCorner on going my own path in life, but I, like everyone else, didn’t start out that way. In life, it often takes dozens of tries to finally get it right. Maybe I shouldn’t admit … Continue reading Trying To Fit In

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Never Let Anything Supersede This

April 2, 2023July 30, 2025 RJ Walters

Christianity is ultimately about loving God and loving others. It should never be co-opted by a political movement, a religious institution, gaining power, obtaining control, spreading influence, enforcing laws, or becoming rich and famous. It’s about a loving relationship with … Continue reading Never Let Anything Supersede This

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One Of My Favorite Things…

April 1, 2023March 31, 2023 RJ Walters

One of my favorite things to do on my many roadtrips is to photograph containers. To me, they say a lot about our history Continue reading One Of My Favorite Things…

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Another Benefit Of Personal Journaling

March 31, 2023March 31, 2023 RJ Walters

Most of us have personal stories that we wouldn’t share with anyone. They might be a self-perceived character flaw that we don’t want to admit. They could be things that happened to us in the past that permanently scarred us. … Continue reading Another Benefit Of Personal Journaling

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The Only Option Left

March 30, 2023March 30, 2023 RJ Walters

Some more wise words from Lessons Taught By Life. People often tell me that “I am so brave” because I face two major afflictions in life. I tell them that I am not brave because what I do is the … Continue reading The Only Option Left

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Calming An Anxious Brain

March 27, 2023March 26, 2023 RJ Walters

Whenever I see topics about a busy brain, they draw me in. I recently came across such an article in the New York Times. It was entitled 5 Ways to Calm Your Anxious Brain. This post, and maybe a couple … Continue reading Calming An Anxious Brain

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Why You Will Never Do Anything Amazing

March 24, 2023March 23, 2023 RJ Walters

I came across the title of this post while I was reading articles on the Medium. It gave seven reasons for failure to do amazing things, that stuck to me. Being the writer, or maybe the commentarian that I am, … Continue reading Why You Will Never Do Anything Amazing

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Just Walk Away

March 23, 2023March 22, 2023 RJ Walters

Isn’t it ironic that this Facebook post from Lessons Taught by Life came up the very day I finally discovered the thing that threatened my peace was trying to fit into neurotypical groups. They don’t understand me, and I am … Continue reading Just Walk Away

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Ambitions Turned Inward – Part 4 – On Becoming Social

March 22, 2023July 30, 2025 RJ Walters

Ambitions Turned Inward (ATI) has turned out to be something much more significant that I thought it would at the beginning of this series. The first post was about wrapping my head around the idea of turning my ever present … Continue reading Ambitions Turned Inward – Part 4 – On Becoming Social

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I Am A Frank Loyd Wright Fan

March 21, 2023March 21, 2023 RJ Walters

I have been a big Frank Lloyd Wright fan for many years now. One of my early dreams that was too quickly abandoned was to be an architect. I have visited numerous FLW houses and am seriously contemplating making it … Continue reading I Am A Frank Loyd Wright Fan

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Nothing Is Certain Except…

March 20, 2023March 20, 2023 RJ Walters

In this world nothing is certain but death and taxes Both these things have been on my mind lately. I have been trying to decide if I should find a place to rent that is twice the size but half … Continue reading Nothing Is Certain Except…

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Six Years Ago, Today…

March 19, 2023 RJ Walters

I just happened to come across this photo that I took six years ago, today. It was down in the teens today, and I have been dreaming of warm weather that will surely come in the next couple of weeks. … Continue reading Six Years Ago, Today…

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Memories of the NJ Homestead

March 17, 2023March 14, 2023 RJ Walters

We were only there for four years, but the New Jersey homestead contained many pleasant memories. This was in the front entryway. Continue reading Memories of the NJ Homestead

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Locust Grove Reenactment

March 16, 2023March 16, 2023 RJ Walters

In 2019, I spent my traveling time dedicated to reenactments. It was very enjoyable. Perhaps this was the best picture of the bunch? 🥸 Continue reading Locust Grove Reenactment

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I Love Puttering…

March 14, 2023July 30, 2025 RJ Walters

When my wife died eighteen months ago, I moved from a 2400 SF century old farmhouse and a 1500 SF barn, into an 850 SF apartment here in my RetCom (retirement community). That was quite a shock for me, but … Continue reading I Love Puttering…

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A Few Thoughts About Christianity – Stephen Mattson

March 12, 2023July 30, 2025 RJ Walters

I am not going to “preach” to you, but every Sunday going forward I am going to give you some thoughts from those wiser than me, about what it means to be a Christian. I promise I won’t add any … Continue reading A Few Thoughts About Christianity – Stephen Mattson

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Don’t Judge

March 10, 2023August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

I have often proclaimed that I am a writer, but why do I write? I think all writers often ask this question many times over the years. I like to remind myself of the reasons regularly. This is one of … Continue reading Don’t Judge

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Lego Of My Lego

March 4, 2023March 4, 2023 RJ Walters

If it works for frozen waffles, the title above oughta work for Lego too. 🥸 I have been toying with Lego blocks for a while now. I think maybe I am going to include it in my Ambitions Turned Inward … Continue reading Lego Of My Lego

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ATI Part 3 – Forget the Past…

March 3, 2023March 2, 2023 RJ Walters

This series is turning out to be deeper than I imagined, so I think it deserves its place among my “Special Projects” and has its own logo. For this, Ambition Turned Inward post, I want to concentrate on the past. … Continue reading ATI Part 3 – Forget the Past…

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Ambitions Turned Inward – Part 2

March 1, 2023May 6, 2026 RJ Walters

This is the second installment about turning inward with my life’s ambitions as suggested by a comment from a recent post. The first post in this series was about wrapping my mind around the concept of inward ambition. This post … Continue reading Ambitions Turned Inward – Part 2

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One Of My Favorites

February 28, 2023February 27, 2023 RJ Walters

This is one of my favorite pictures looking out the front window at the homestead (stylized of course 🙃). The silo in the background was never used as a silo, but it did function as a place to store junk … Continue reading One Of My Favorites

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Ambitions Turned Inward – Part 1

February 27, 2023March 2, 2023 RJ Walters

My recent post about ambition got numerous views and several helpful comments. Thanks for that. Perhaps the most valuable was from my friend Bob Lowry about turning my ambition inward. Bob and I have been friends for more than a … Continue reading Ambitions Turned Inward – Part 1

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Faith Should Not Be A Static Thing

February 26, 2023July 30, 2025 RJ Walters

Faith should not be a static thing in today’s world, especially since there are so many who are using their version of God to try to shut off your mind to other possibilities. Many very intelligent people have come to … Continue reading Faith Should Not Be A Static Thing

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Walking The Halls…

February 25, 2023February 17, 2023 RJ Walters

I can’t count the number of times I had walked the halls of this place. It was the hospital that my wife had innumerable surgeries while lived in our rural homestead. It has been replaced by a much larger super … Continue reading Walking The Halls…

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“American Aristocracy” Vs “Adversity Builds Character”

February 24, 2023February 24, 2023 RJ Walters

All my life I have been stuck between two worlds. As a youth, I didn’t fit in with the in-crowd, but I didn’t fit in with the out-crowd either When I went deaf, I distinctly chose not to be part … Continue reading “American Aristocracy” Vs “Adversity Builds Character”

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Mighty Warrior

February 23, 2023February 23, 2023 RJ Walters

(click the pic to see a larger view) For this “A Picture Is A Poem Without Words” I give you the mighty warrior. I’m not exactly sure what museum it was located, but I’m pretty sure it was in St. … Continue reading Mighty Warrior

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Chasing Rainbows

February 22, 2023July 30, 2025 RJ Walters

I have finally realized that I have been chasing rainbows all my life. I was always looking down the road when I could have an exciting adventure of one sort or another. I did actually manage to make some of … Continue reading Chasing Rainbows

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Lake Michigan

February 21, 2023February 21, 2023 RJ Walters

(click to open a larger version) For the last 36 years, I have spent at least 2 – 3 days every year visiting northern Lake Michigan around the Green Bay Area. That’s paper country, for those of you who don’t … Continue reading Lake Michigan

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Oxymorons And Other Such Things To Think About

February 20, 2023February 6, 2023 RJ Walters

Oxymoron is a strange word. I really don’t know how it is pronounced, since I didn’t learn it until after I was deaf. I have been collecting some of these type things, and thought I would put them together here … Continue reading Oxymorons And Other Such Things To Think About

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Snail Mail Art

February 18, 2023February 17, 2023 RJ Walters

I saw this package on the reception desk in my retirement community recently, and it reminded me that snail mail art probably won’t exist too much longer. Continue reading Snail Mail Art

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Living On Borrowed Time…

February 17, 2023July 30, 2025 RJ Walters

The expected life span of men born in the U.S. is 76.4 years I knew this day would come, or at least I hoped it would. I am now 76.4 years old, so at least I have lived at as … Continue reading Living On Borrowed Time…

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A Picture Is A Poem Without Words

February 16, 2023February 15, 2023 RJ Walters

— Horace I have tried numerous attempts to bring up photo/art posts here on RJsCorner. Most of those attempts have not proved as successful as I would like. So, here we go again. I think this one has a fair … Continue reading A Picture Is A Poem Without Words

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A Rare Sight…Pileated Woodpecker

February 14, 2023February 14, 2023 RJ Walters

(Click to see a larger view) If you are fortunate enough to see one of these guys at your bird feeder, you are a lucky person. They are very reclusive critters. At the homestead we fed about 100 lbs of … Continue reading A Rare Sight…Pileated Woodpecker

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Lost Ambition…

February 13, 2023August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

This post will be a personal story about ambition, but I kinda think some of you might be dealing with the same issues. Most of my life has been driven by ambition. From an early age, I believed that my … Continue reading Lost Ambition…

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