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Loving Jesus…

June 12, 2022June 9, 2022 RJ Walters

The very foundations of my religious beliefs revolve around the teachings of Jesus. I no longer call myself a Christian as that word has become so tainted by those who think they need to add their input to what Jesus … Continue reading Loving Jesus…

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She’s A Woman, & Therefore Disabled…

June 11, 2022June 10, 2022 RJ Walters

Ok, this will be one of those weird posts, so don’t pile on until you have read it all. Before I finish out the title to this post, I need to give you some background. Streaming TV is my TV … Continue reading She’s A Woman, & Therefore Disabled…

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Copying Others…

June 10, 2022June 10, 2022 RJ Walters

“Life is the most difficult exam. Many people fail because they try to copy others, not realizing that everyone has a different question paper.” — Jeremy McGilvrey I am constantly on the lookout for quotes such as this one. I … Continue reading Copying Others…

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On-The-Road Epilogue #3 – Sedona Arizona

June 9, 2022August 31, 2022 RJ Walters

It’s time for another epilogue post on my recent On-The-Road trip to the South and Southwest. This one will give you more pics and details about one of the most picturesque town I have ever been in. Sedona Arizona is … Continue reading On-The-Road Epilogue #3 – Sedona Arizona

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A Special Thank You…

June 8, 2022June 7, 2022 RJ Walters

Through the comments I have received on this blog recently, I have come to realize that RJsCorner is becoming a “virtual village” of people from around the world. I currently have regular readers and frequent commentors from London, Australia, New … Continue reading A Special Thank You…

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On-The-Road Epilogue #2 – Stages of the Pandemic & The Death Knell of Local Eateries

June 7, 2022August 31, 2022 RJ Walters

While on my 3+ weeks on the road, I actually lost almost 4 lbs. That kinda surprised me but in looking back I realized the source of the loss was the absence of local eateries in many of the areas … Continue reading On-The-Road Epilogue #2 – Stages of the Pandemic & The Death Knell of Local Eateries

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Life Is A Great Balancing Act…

June 6, 2022August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

Earlier this year I got a small calendar from a small Amish store that I frequent a few times a year. I just love their pickled asparagus and other things. I usually say no when these things are offered, but … Continue reading Life Is A Great Balancing Act…

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On-The-Road Epilogue # 1 – The Weather And Landscape.

June 4, 2022August 31, 2022 RJ Walters

My 6,000 mile roadtrip through the South and Southwest had many goals and unattainable expectations. But, I have learned from experience that having unattainable expectations is far superior to having none at all. I have many planned epilogue posts coming … Continue reading On-The-Road Epilogue # 1 – The Weather And Landscape.

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On-The-Road Post #11 – I’m Back…

June 3, 2022August 31, 2022 RJ Walters

I got back yesterday from my 6,000-mile trek across the southern half of the U.S. It was an enjoyable and informative 3+ weeks. As reported in my last post, the final milestone for this trip was to visit a long … Continue reading On-The-Road Post #11 – I’m Back…

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On-The-Road Post #10 – Days 16-18 -Cacti, And Sealing A Friendship.

May 29, 2022August 31, 2022 RJ Walters

I really did intend on blogging every day during this trip, but just couldn’t manage it with all the other things to take up time each day. If it is any consolation I will be doing more in depth posts … Continue reading On-The-Road Post #10 – Days 16-18 -Cacti, And Sealing A Friendship.

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On The Road #9 – Days 13-15, Arizona

May 28, 2022August 31, 2022 RJ Walters

I have spent the last three days in Arizona. In many ways, it is beautiful, or at least very different here than home. One thing I can say it that it is very HOT an DRY. I didn’t expect that … Continue reading On The Road #9 – Days 13-15, Arizona

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On The Road #8 – Day 15 – La Posada

May 25, 2022January 8, 2024 RJ Walters

I don’t do this very often, but I am going to give full endorsement to the hotel I spent two days on my layover in Santa Fe, New Mexico. This is the second time I have spent multi-day visits to … Continue reading On The Road #8 – Day 15 – La Posada

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On The Road #7 – Days 11 -14. It Worked!!

May 24, 2022August 31, 2022 RJ Walters

Here I am on the final day of my three-day layover in Santa Fe and I can say it has rejuvenated me for the rest of the trip. I spent the first night in a RV park just outside the … Continue reading On The Road #7 – Days 11 -14. It Worked!!

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On The Road #6 – Day 11 – MyFavoriteTexas Town

May 22, 2022August 31, 2022 RJ Walters

Here I am in Clovis New Mexico on a Sunday morning. Getting ready to check out of my motel in a couple of hours. The sun came up about 5:45 this morning, so of course I, as always, got up … Continue reading On The Road #6 – Day 11 – MyFavoriteTexas Town

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On The Road #5 – Day 10 – Texas In Two Days.

May 21, 2022August 31, 2022 RJ Walters

Here I am at the end of Day 1 in Texas spending another night in a hotel room. It managed to get up to 99 degrees today. I wonder what the temperatures will be in mid-July? It was like being … Continue reading On The Road #5 – Day 10 – Texas In Two Days.

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On The Road #4- Day 9 -The Gulf Coast

May 20, 2022August 31, 2022 RJ Walters

Here it is 6am and I am sitting in a hotel room in Houston Texas watching a thousand cars go by every minute. Welcome to the big city, I guess. I spent the last three days traveling along the Gulf … Continue reading On The Road #4- Day 9 -The Gulf Coast

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On-The-Road #3 – Day 7 – Just Have Fun…

May 17, 2022August 31, 2022 RJ Walters

I have been taking this month-long vacation much too seriously. It’s as if I expect it to solve all my life’s problems. With these kinds of expectations, how can it be anything but a disappointment? I know that I overthink … Continue reading On-The-Road #3 – Day 7 – Just Have Fun…

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On-The-Road #2 – Day 3. About “The Villages”

May 15, 2022August 31, 2022 RJ Walters

What can I say about “The Villages”? It is the world’s largest retirement community. Here is a little about what they say about themselves: The Villages® community in Florida is one of the largest age-restricted active adult communities in the state. … Continue reading On-The-Road #2 – Day 3. About “The Villages”

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On-The-Road #1 -2 Getting To Florida

May 14, 2022August 31, 2022 RJ Walters

Here it is 6:00am on day 4, and I am sitting in my first hotel room after boondocking at Walmart locations for the first two nights. Those two days were primarily travel days and nothing much to report except about … Continue reading On-The-Road #1 -2 Getting To Florida

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We Don’t See Things As They Are…

May 9, 2022May 4, 2022 RJ Walters

“We do not see things as they are, we see things as we are.” — Anaïs Nin The quote above struck me as some daily insight gained when I read it. I am not familiar with Anais Nin other than … Continue reading We Don’t See Things As They Are…

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The Streak Is Broken…

May 6, 2022May 5, 2022 RJ Walters

As of yesterday, I broke my streak here at RJsCorner. Until then, I had posted 293 consecutive days! I don’t know whether that is some kind or record, but it is for me. Those 293 days started soon after my … Continue reading The Streak Is Broken…

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For The First Time…

May 3, 2022May 1, 2022 RJ Walters

I have always wondered what would have happened if I had gone deaf without any support. I am beginning to discover that now. I went deaf two years after I was married in 1986. My now departed somewhat new bride … Continue reading For The First Time…

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Something About Glass…

May 1, 2022April 30, 2022 RJ Walters

There is something about glass that is entrancing to me. Especially when the color combinations are just perfect. Continue reading Something About Glass…

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RetComLife #36 – A Different Mindset…

April 30, 2022August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

It was a year ago today that started the beginning of the end for my wife. She had just suffered her 4th and most severe heart attack that would in 78 days result in her death. Those 78 days were … Continue reading RetComLife #36 – A Different Mindset…

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Mechanical Trees…

April 28, 2022April 28, 2022 RJ Walters

I haven’t written a technical post here on RJsCorner for some time now. It seems my recent thoughts tend to be more emotional and personal. But, I am still an IT (Information Technology) guy who loved mechanical stuff. As I … Continue reading Mechanical Trees…

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Life Is Tough…

April 27, 2022June 22, 2025 RJ Walters

Life is pretty tough. You’re lucky if you live through it. Woody Guthrie Woody Guthrie is a hero of mine. He directed his life toward the common man. He seldom parsed his words when he had something to say. In … Continue reading Life Is Tough…

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Slave To Electronics

April 26, 2022April 12, 2022 RJ Walters

It is a right of passing that all the older generation complain about the habits of younger ones. When I was a kid, after TV was invented, older people complained that TVs were going to rot their kids brains. Then … Continue reading Slave To Electronics

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RetComLife#35 – Outside My Comfort Zone

April 25, 2022August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

I have decided to use the upcoming lifetime roadtrip to move out of my comfort zone and look for alternative areas of the country for my retirement community life. Except for four years in New Jersey, and a few months … Continue reading RetComLife#35 – Outside My Comfort Zone

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Back To My Religious Roots?

April 24, 2022July 1, 2026 RJ Walters

I have let it be known here on RJsCorner that I am disappointed in most Christian Churches. So many of them are now dominated by those who act very contrary to their founder’s words. I know not every one of … Continue reading Back To My Religious Roots?

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The Nagging Question About My Roadtrip

April 22, 2022April 27, 2022 RJ Walters

I have dreamed of doing a trip similar to John Steinbeck’s Travels with Charlie for the last sixty years, and now, to some extent, it is about to happen. As a young man, I dreamed of having some of the … Continue reading The Nagging Question About My Roadtrip

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Life Exists, But It Is Never Fulfilled By Too Much Caution

April 21, 2022July 30, 2025 RJ Walters

I sadly have pretty much lived my life based with too much caution. I spent twenty years in a profession that I never really liked because I was afraid to be without a paycheck. I never really managed to live … Continue reading Life Exists, But It Is Never Fulfilled By Too Much Caution

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A Personal Observation About Eating Out…

April 20, 2022April 19, 2022 RJ Walters

Before I lived in my retirement community, I used to drive 22 miles to walk the mall every Friday. That ritual included lunch out in selected places. Now that I have the walking path around our community I have gotten … Continue reading A Personal Observation About Eating Out…

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Brain Dump Journalling

April 19, 2022April 9, 2022 RJ Walters

I came across an interesting article a few months ago that got caught in the cracks, but I am bringing it out now. I have been writing a journal for 40 years now, but I still have lessons to learn … Continue reading Brain Dump Journalling

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I Hate Self-Checkouts

April 18, 2022April 18, 2022 RJ Walters

I have always avoided the ever-growing self-checkouts whenever possible. I did so for two reasons They took away jobs for those who have low skills. – Not everyone has the ambition and the ability to learn the skills necessary for … Continue reading I Hate Self-Checkouts

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Some Cling To Traditions…

April 17, 2022March 17, 2026 RJ Walters

Some cling to traditions as if it were life itself. I am not one of them. To me, traditions are too often used to cling to prejudice and a fanatical resistance to change, any change. I saw that on display … Continue reading Some Cling To Traditions…

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RetComLife # 34 – Starting To Have Some Serious Doubts

April 15, 2022August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

I am starting to have my doubts whether I want to make my permanent home here in my present retirement community. That is what this post is all about. First, I am paying a lot of money for things I … Continue reading RetComLife # 34 – Starting To Have Some Serious Doubts

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Another Acorn Must Watch…

April 14, 2022April 14, 2022 RJ Walters

I love streaming TV. The Ala cart way to watch TV is fantastic. I don’t miss the 200 cable channels full of ads. Because of streaming, it is nice to see that the rest of the world is not so … Continue reading Another Acorn Must Watch…

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Is It Even Possible??

April 13, 2022April 27, 2022 RJ Walters

Continuing on from yesterday’s post, want to explore what I want to get from the upcoming extended roadtrip. Two things come immediately to mind. The first is, “Are extended roadtrips even possible for me at this time in my life?” … Continue reading Is It Even Possible??

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Roadtripping, The How-To’s

April 12, 2022April 11, 2022 RJ Walters

A few posts ago I tried to convince you to do a roadtrip instead of getting on an airplane. I will soon be going on a roadtrip that is sixty years in the making, so I decided to refresh my … Continue reading Roadtripping, The How-To’s

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Until It’s Gone

April 11, 2022August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

This post like many, came to me in my daily morning shower. Over the past many years I have come to realize that I am a “morning” person. Most of my creative juices come during the first five or six … Continue reading Until It’s Gone

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Kentucky Artisan Center

April 10, 2022April 8, 2022 RJ Walters

As soon as my µRV gets out of the shop from fixing my cruise control I am going to take it for an overnight shakedown trip just to make sure everything is just right. The destination is The Kentucky Artisan … Continue reading Kentucky Artisan Center

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RetComLife#33 – I Am Tired Of …

April 8, 2022August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

Here I am sitting at my keyboard again, when I should be having dinner. Let me explain a little more. Some of you know that I have Aspie traits that make social situations uncomfortable. For that reason, I usually go … Continue reading RetComLife#33 – I Am Tired Of …

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Why A Roadtrip??

April 6, 2022April 6, 2022 RJ Walters

Most who come here regularly know that I am about to embark on a road trip that has been on my agenda for 60 years. I have taken many road trips in my life, but this will be the longest … Continue reading Why A Roadtrip??

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Fitting In…

April 5, 2022April 4, 2022 RJ Walters

Fitting in is a cultural expectation. From birth, we are told that this is the way you get along with others. It starts with your parents telling you how to behave, and, if you let it, it continues throughout your … Continue reading Fitting In…

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How Long Should It Take To Grieve?

April 4, 2022August 28, 2025 RJ Walters

I read an article in the New York Times last week with the title above. I have let it be known here on RJsCorner that I don’t think they really thought out putting Asperger’s Syndrome into the Autism Spectrum. To … Continue reading How Long Should It Take To Grieve?

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